Signals that He's Just NOT that Into Marrying You..
Posted on Wednesday, May 05, 2010
Today is a bit weird for me, feel powerless, limp and got a disturbing headache. I could do nothing except replying some e-mail and seeing my laptop turn on before me. I tried to boost my mood by listening my favorites songs over my winamp, still nothing change. I know that the deadlines, composing the company profile are still waiting but I am not interested to accomplish them now. My heart felt so empty and my mind clogged. What happened to me? my self could not answer it as well.
Then I took the last -month magz before my desk here. I found an interesting article to read entitled "8 Signals He's Just Not That Into Marrying You" by Sabrina Syams and I decided to share it here. This will be a nice fact for you, girls!
Eight (8) Signals He's just not that into marrying you:
1. He's not home even on summer break
This will be a cliche reason that is often used when men are separated of range of time with you. Indeed, the plane fare was not cheap, but the road would be opened widely if there is a desire, right? Forget all the communication which is created through sophisticated devices such as skype, yahoo messenger, and a lot more. If you mean so much to him, needless to say he will seek anyways to be able to find you face to face.
2. He says he's not settle yet
It goes without saying, when your beau says this to you that means you'd better to find someone better else. He is not confident of his own capability. One thing for sure, you won't spend your whole life time only to wait and wait for him so long long time in years to come, will you?
3. He choose scholarship over you
You are certainly proud of his success as he could struggle between so many thousands of competitors to gain a prestigious scholarship, but you must realize that he asserts his own final goal and unfortunately you are not part of that goal.
4. He never introduces his family to you
Many years gone by only with him. Still in this period of time he never introduces his family to you? Do not waste time playing with your assumptions. Just ask, if the answer does not make sense, then the next step is go ahead and leave him!
5. Party hard loves you less
When the intentions to grow up a family comes up, the men will naturally leave his 'bad' lifestyle. If your beloved are still in love to get party all night long, you have to think about it thousands time as it will more painful when you realized that he loves to spend the time in his 'community' rather than with you at home.
6. He lives at work
Nothing wrong with a man who has strong passion to work and high ambition to reach his promotion. Still, this situation becomes serious when he does not have a time to be with you anymore. Busy with his blackberry, never stops picking up some calls, and a lot more. If this is running day by day, put off your sweet dreams with him.
7. He keeps on making an empty promises
No words which could best describe of this case. the answer is just leave him, that's it!
8. He 'suffers' Peterpan syndroms
This is a popular syndrome to describe a mature man who doesn't act like on his age. He usually irresponsible, rebel, emotional, and manipulative. Beware of this man as you will be his accessories to cover his 'doubt' maturity.
Fiuhhh... Those facts will indeed make you afraid and a bit questioning "Is he just that into me?" hahaha... (me as well here). Still, I am sure that God will lead to the best person to me and God leads me to him now! cheers...
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